You didn't know that a blog could have a sequel did you? Well, in my world they can. The reason is well, if I would have put everything in the first half of this blog then I would have gone on for days.....this way I can break it up a little and change topic without losing my reader's interest. Seriously let's face it, most of us have the attention span of a 2 year old. We need new things after a certain amount of time. So this is where part two comes in and where it will begin.....
Sex. We all think about it, most of us are doing it, and I'm hoping that everyone loves it. One question that has plagued women everywhere, why do people cheat? I have a couple of answers to that question. The reason I have a couple is because one reason doesn't cover every situation. The differences between men and women cause different answers to that question. This is where the big differences between men and women come in as well.
When it comes to sex, women are in it for love. I don't give a rat's ass what anyone tells you, women are always in it for love whether or not they want to admit it. We can not separate emotion from just sex. We always throw our heart into it even if we don't want to. We can say all we want is sex from a man and we will make ourselves believe it, but deep down that person is more than just a fuck buddy. (Friend with benefits, booty call...etc you get the drift.) So we set up these rules with this other person and then we break the no emotional attachment rule that we are usually the first ones to mention. Then, we proceed to get angry when he decides to start dating other people as well as dating you, because we have developed this emotional attachment to this person that we said we only wanted a sexual relationship with. We call him every name in the book, cause a huge fight and are just as hurt as we would be if we were in an actual relationship with this person. They think we are crazy, call us all the names in the book and ask why we started anything with them in the first place when the agreement was not to get emotionally attached. We complain to our friends that he was an asshole and he tells his friends that bitches are crazy and nothing is resolved. Now when you are in an actual committed relationship, you and your object of affection are great for a few months, doing everything together, making kissy faces in public, and all the other stuff that couples do that makes the rest of the world gag and yell "get a room!!" Eventually the Disney movie love wears off and you are in a serious sexual relationship with another person with all the commitment that goes along with it. So why do girls cheat? Because something in a lot of us can never truly settle down with just one person and be happy. We will nit pick and look for every thing we can to find something wrong with the person we are with. Once we find one little fault, its almost always a deal breaker. We can still be with this person in a relationship and be on the prowl for something we might think is better. (Chances are very good that its not and the person you are with is everything you are looking for.) Once we find that someone else, its all a tragic fall that spirals out of control and turns into an affair that we later realize wasn't worth the relationship that we threw away by cheating. How does the other person find out about the affair you ask? Because girls are stupid and we either put ourselves in a position that we get caught or we feel guilty and we tell the truth. There is no way around it. Secrets are something that we are genetically programmed to not be able to keep. World war 3 happens and we just ruined possibly the best relationship that we will ever have with out any hope of salvage. How can we prevent this from happening? DON'T CHEAT!!!!!! It's not hard, just don't do it. Chances are that no other man is going to be better than the one that you found and feel like you can't live without. If that man treats you like your a goddess, tells you you are beautiful everyday, tells you I love you multiple times a day and would do anything for you ( slay dragons, defend your honor...etc) then he is worth keeping. So if you think you may have found something better.....you didn't....don't do it.
Men on the other hand are a different story. Some of them are like women and are on the prowl for something better, which they don't find and end up screwing up that best thing that ever came into their lives. Some of them are just plain stupid and think that they are capable of keeping a secret from several different girls that they are fucking and then they get caught and try to come up with a lame ass excuse as to why it happened. The excuse never works and they are either left totally alone or end up with one or two of the girls still willing to fight for him. (These types of girls are seriously fucking stupid and should be shot. He cheated once...he will do it again.) Then, you have the vast majority of men who will be straight and admit that the only reason that they cheated was because its an animal instinct. Its the drive in men to be able to try an stick their dicks into as many women as possible before they die. There is no love, no emotion involved. Men have the ability to separate sex and love. They can just have sex with a girl and not have any feelings for her and then go home to the woman they love that stole their heart away and be happy. Its sort of like a parallel universe. Now, I'm not saying that because of this ridiculous ability that men were given, it's by any means an excuse for cheating, but it kind of explains the motive behind it all.
Before you begin to lose all hope, there are a small population of men on this planet that can commit to a woman and she is all he will ever need. The thought of cheating may cross his mind, but he will never act on it because he know that he would be ruining the best thing that he ever found. He appreciates everything that you do for him and will do everything in his power to make you feel like the goddess that he knows you are. These men ladies, are the ones that you need to find and keep. I found mine and I will never let him go. I would clone him if I could....I would make a killing. He is my best friend and soul mate and I don't know where or who I would be with out him. If you find a man like my husband, KEEP HIM!!!!
So in closing, I say this, the above reading are the differences between men and women and they reasons why we cheat. Use it as a lesson to learn not to or as a guide to find and stay away from those who do....cheating never did anyone any good and it never will. Until Next Time.......
